One of Rhonda’s more curious spiritual practices was “sex magic.” She believed that sex is the primordial force in nature, and the energy generated during sex could be channeled through the power of intention. According to Baba Dez Nichols and Kamala Devi:
[S]ex magic is a spiritual practice that uses sexual desire to manifest tangible effect in the physical world. One of the most powerful experiences that we have as human beings is orgasmic energy, and if we can pair it with intent, then we can direct the most powerful manifesting force available on earth.
Needless to say, I’m skeptical. I was willing to go along with anything that made Rhonda wet, however, so I gamely participated.
We were intertwined on her “altar bed” in the yab yum position, bathed in candlelight. Sexy New Age music hovered in the background. She started with a chakra meditation. Then Rhonda gently undulated her body against mine. I savored her slickness. I stared into her blue eyes. She quickened her pace. Her eyes closed as she concentrated; her intention was for success for her nascent private practice. (We had once fucked to heal the planet.) Drops of my perspiration fell onto her body. She was moaning as her hips gyrated, luxuriating in our sexual energy. We went at it for a long time. With short thrusts, I strained at lasting as long as possible. But as my balls tightened, I knew I couldn’t last much longer. A husky groan escaped from me as I expelled my life force deep inside Rhonda. Her face scrunched together as she absorbed my semen and tried to access my orgasmic energy. I went limp, hoping she was convinced we had engaged in sexual alchemy.
Witchcraft does not need to apologize for involving sex magic. It is other religions which need to apologize for the miseries of puritanical repression they have inflicted on humanity.
Doreen Valiente, Witchcraft for Tomorrow
Lutheran Guilt 