I’ve been communicating online with “Mandy,” a single mom in her early 30s. Her screen name is redhead_freak, which gives a good idea of her interests. (She described herself as a “sexual animal” who wants to be “taken” on her kitchen floor in the middle of the day. “Man, I need to get laid,” she once confessed unprompted.) It appears that we have nothing in common outside a shared interest in sex. We’ve had three X-rated chats so far. She lives a few hours away, and last night she broached the possibility of meeting in person for some fun. Neither of us is searching for a romantic partner on this forum, so the sex would come with nary a string attached.
My experience with Rhonda taught me that motherhood doesn’t necessarily dim the fires of lust. One horny mommy says, “Sex (and especially good sex) is an integral part of being a human being, mom or not. Being a mom and enjoying sex are not mutually exclusive.” The expectation that a single mom should be wholly consumed with parenting to the exclusion of more carnal pursuits probably brings a twinge of guilt to a mom who wants to exercise horizontally. Still, free from the confines of monogamy, some single moms adventurously explore their sexual freedom. One confessed in print that, after her divorce, she experienced a sexual awakening that included multi-partner sex, bondage, sex clubs, and male escorts.
Mandy certainly doesn’t seem like a stranger to sexual adventure. We’ll see where this goes.
Lutheran Guilt 